by kimmel1972 | Feb 20, 2022 | Ben's Blog
I was thinking of a moment that seemed to have no other options. I was in a room “as they say” with no doors to the outside. Of course, I say this figuratively. I was at a place with no attractive resources. I came to a place where there was no exit, or at least,...
by kimmel1972 | Feb 19, 2022 | Ben's Blog
To be honest, the idea of change was unthinkable to me. I say this before going forward but I say this with a purpose. I say this because I had lived a certain way for such a long time and to me, living any other way seemed impossible. I lacked the energy to change. I...
by kimmel1972 | Feb 18, 2022 | Ben's Blog
There was a time when I would take a trip up to the roof of the building at work. I was high up and above the streets down on Lexington Avenue. I would face the east and look up and down the Eastside of Manhattan, New York City. I would allow myself to absorb the...
by kimmel1972 | Feb 17, 2022 | Ben's Blog
There was someone who told me, “Kid, the only way ‘To it’ is through it.” What this person really meant is in the case of finding our way or having the life we want to live, there is no easier or softer way. And by the way, the idea of finding an easier, softer way is...
by kimmel1972 | Feb 16, 2022 | Ben's Blog
There really is no reason for us to fight or argue. And yet, we do. We argue about everything. We argue about politics. We argue about prices. We argue about the difference between sauce or gravy. Come to think of it, I have seen people literally get upset about the...
